tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3718196829718123475.post5443246972798375321..comments2023-10-26T09:55:04.932-05:00Comments on Beer, Dogs, and Getting Healthier...: Cheers to blogging about randomness.Laura Bellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10312210955440443865noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3718196829718123475.post-44090704771504455152013-12-09T21:02:17.141-06:002013-12-09T21:02:17.141-06:00I'm not sure how best to say this, but the onl...I'm not sure how best to say this, but the only way I've been able to get over the things that were done to me in my youth, was to have a good life. And certainly I have found that what Drazil said is true...time and aging were the things that allowed me to look back and see that where I am right now is so much greater than those things in my past. And it literally just came together a few seconds ago, when I was listening to a song. I read your post yesterday, and obviously it stayed with me, but when I was listening to that song (I Lived by OneRepublic), I realized that with every great or even good thing I do or that happens to me, I get that much further away from the low parts. Sometimes my past punches me in the face, but most of the time I am just so much in the present and the future that I don't consider anything else.Debhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00772304824929234585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3718196829718123475.post-57013726510472813652013-12-08T20:41:21.390-06:002013-12-08T20:41:21.390-06:00Ok - I'm no therapist BUT I disagree with talk...Ok - I'm no therapist BUT I disagree with talking to him. I mean honestly - will anything he say be a good enough reason for the hurt and pain? When you're done you'll still hate and wonder why. I think people like him do not have answers or know why - or they wouldn't do the shit they do. They aren't rational and they don't think like rational people - so they make the same mistakes over and over. Normal people - make a mistake - and never do it again, right? THOSE are the people you can forgive and stop hating. I always swore I'd love to talk to my Uncle to ask him why because he I knew his suicide was solely responsible for changing my life in a negative way but now that I think about it....NOPE. He could never have said anything that would have made it okay or have taken back the tears I cried. The battle was within myself. It really had nothing to do with him. And literally - the ONLY thing that ever made it better was time. And aging and learning. I don't know. Maybe I'm not making sense. I hate that you are hurting and that this is eating you up inside but right now - at this point in your life - what you're feeling about him is what you're supposed to be feeling about him. Shitty things happen to good people. Shitty people end up hurting us over and over until we make them stop. It is what it is but it's too recent for you to feel any way okay about this. It's too soon. I wish I could end your pain. I'm sorry honey.♥ Drazil ♥https://www.blogger.com/profile/10177140029694038645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3718196829718123475.post-22219295698149357172013-12-07T06:30:15.497-06:002013-12-07T06:30:15.497-06:00What a cutie! She looks good in purple!
Sometimes...What a cutie! She looks good in purple!<br /><br />Sometimes it helps to go into a conversation like that with the mindset that their answer isn't going to be the truth, but that it is the lie/excuse they have created to help them justify what they did. Maybe hearing that excuse will help you understand the screwed up mentality that caused their actions. It doesn't make it better, but it might give you some insight? Just my two cents. I hope you can find some of that closure soon! ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08976859432116973503noreply@blogger.com